Do Soldiers Cry?

Soldiers cry because people cry.

During training, it is common to hear (women) soldiers being told to 'stop crying', to toughen up, to, as it were, 'soldier up'.

But - soldiers cry.

It is not an inherent weakness in a woman that makes her cry, any more than a soldier showing emotion is showing weakness.

It is her strength. A soldier who can cry, who can express emotion, and still BE a soldier, is far stronger than those who are uncomfortable with that expression of emotion.

Perhaps then, it is those who cannot abide the tears who are weak. Anyone who can be so intimidated by a little bit of salt water should consider the old saying:

If you can't handle getting yelled at, how are you going to handle getting shot at?

To wit - if you can't handle the consequences of yelling at people, how are YOU going to handle the repercussions of shooting at them? If you can't stand to make someone cry, how are you going to handle making someone bleed?

Secure and protected

Ah, the PPE of the military. My personal protective equipment apparently does NOT end with gas masks or surgical masks, rubber gloves or latex gloves, tactical vests or dental scrubs.

It apparently includes my bobby pins and hairnets, because nothing screams safety like a nice tight bun......

New Book, New inspirations

Bob made the mistake of giving me a book for Christmas, so the poor guy didn't get a lot of attention yesterday.

The writing is clear and concise, with excellent stories, and Gen Hillier reminds me why I joined.

The stories also remind me about the way to lead, and not to lead. Unfortunately, it doesn't give a lot of advice on how to be a follower!

I guess I am still learning that part.....